Tuesday, March 06, 2007

Where is the LINE?

Any of you guys/gals remember your past love(s) or is still in contact with them?

I for one have to admit that I am still very, very good friends with my former girlfriend.....very shy to say that I have only one Ex cause after her came my wifey ( Thank You GOD ).

My Ex and I spent 6 good years together...there were the usual ups and downs but all in all it was nice.

There came a time where everything was said telephatically.....then came boredom...then came the break up. Very happy to say that till today we sometimes have lunch or dinner together catching up on each others lives.....the line remains there....NO once more for old times sake after that,k? We just enjoy each others company...hey! no reason to be enemies even if we can't be together right? I always tell her that she will always have a special place in my heart....a fact that she also returns...Thank You SS for being my friend.

Finito about my Ex...let me talk about my admiration for someone I know ( female species ) and is good buddies with....

I admirer her for her courage, her outspokeness, her determination, her character and friendliness ( known as J hereafter ). I told J of my admiration for her as I am not one to keep my feelings pent up inside me.

Told her that I was not going to screw things up by trying to get into her pants because I value her friendship and respect her too much for that. Thankfully she understood what I was trying to say and told me that she felt the same....fhheeeew..what a relief! I enjoy her company, enjoy giving her friendly hugs, enjoy giving her kisses on her cheecks but thats the line as far as I am concerned.

A lot of people told me that there cannot be such things as GOOD FRIENDS among the Male and Female species but I have to seriously rebutt their remarks because everything boils down to you yourself! How you control your emotions and urges is very important. I do admit that I sometimes get hard ons and get the urge to see her naked....thats where the word "Imagination" comes into play....hehehehehe.....I am sure the feelings is mutual after a few glasses. That why I respect and admirer her so much....CONTROL is the word of the day. Neways, I will still continue to admirer her and respect for the person she is.....she will always be my GOOD BUDDY no matter what people say.

I know that I might sound a rascal but for me, its the question of ones principle and believe in life that matters.........

Everyday I Thank the LORD for bringing my wife into my life, for her understanding of my sometimes demanding nature, for giving birth to two beautiful and healthy boys....Thank You Wifey....without her I would not have made it thru difficult and trying times in life and especially my carrier.....and rest assured that I will always come home to sleep beside you and the kids no matter what......

2 every1 his/her own....................

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

You are such a loving husband. Wish you and your family well.

Jamie said...

HAHHAHAHAHA...

Hor ny Ang Moh said...

Sorry for all the yelling at banana place causing u 2 go deaf! That is why I wishper here. He! He! Yes it is possible to have a GF whereby u tell her everything & anything ( except screwing her which never enter mine mind ) until she b'cos someone wife. And yes u do sound like a good husband & father. Wish u happy day in yours family.

Jamie said...

Hor ny Ang Moh...Love yr pic. dunno how to answer yr question...its entirely up to you how u control yr dick dude. BTW dude, u dont have to pretend and use broken english...yr command of the language is much better...

Thanks for the wishes dude...I also wish you, your wife and baby boy what you wish me as well.

Anonymous said...

Jamie...controling dick is something difficult to do...especially for men.

Imagine, u woken with a hardon coz u are getting a BJ from the most sexiest girl (which is not your own gf/wife) u ever seen in your life. What u going to do? Will be tough to push her away and say NO right? Circumstantial sin?

Jamie said...

Anoy...U are 110% spot on....controlling ones dick is not as easy as it seems. Hard ons are a part of human nature. I can assure u that I am no Angel but I make it a point to know where th eline is.
Everyone crosses the line sometime or another but getting back to the site of origin is as important.

At present my percentage of going to hell is way much higher than heaven but that is between me and GOD.

The Line is just a guide ...ity doesn't stop anyone from banging another person's Wife of GF.....2every1 his/her own....

Jamie said...

Anoy...U are 110% spot on....controlling ones dick is not as easy as it seems. Hard ons are a part of human nature. I can assure u that I am no Angel but I make it a point to know where th eline is.
Everyone crosses the line sometime or another but getting back to the site of origin is as important.

At present my percentage of going to hell is way much higher than heaven but that is between me and GOD.

The Line is just a guide ...ity doesn't stop anyone from banging another person's Wife of GF.....2every1 his/her own....

Anonymous said...

You are right...but after reading what u written, I think the chances for me to go to hell is higher too.

Since the God decides where the line is drawn, it's up to individual juridiction on where the line should be drawn. You will never know until the day u are judged. SO the best we can do at the moment is to have a clear conscience in everything you do.

See you in hell!

Jamie said...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....see you in hell too bro....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

marsha said...

eh, your wifey don't have internet access is it? die lah you if she reads this?! from a cousin who does not desire too much to read about a cousin's hard ons!!!