Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Of Myths and Truths ( part 2 )

As promised, part 2 of the spin off from “Where Art Thou Thy Romeo”….

Truly speaking, women seem to be better cheaters than men, they are better at keeping their affairs under wraps and generally have an agenda for their infidelity. Some affairs occur because the cheating parties truly want to leave their established partner, particularly when they are married. However, very few married men leave their wife for their mistress! That is, unless their wife finds out and leaves.

The top 10 reasons why men have affairs include:

1. More sex ( sometimes due to lack of sex in their relationship )

2. Sexual variety through different partners or different sexual experiences.

3. To boost their egos in oredr to feel special or still attractive to the opposite sex

4. For the thrill of the chase

5. Opportunistic sex ( if the opportunity occurs, they cannot pass it up )

6. To sabotage their current relationship.

7. Revenge ( to get back at their partner for one reason or another ).

8. A feeling of entitlement ( the belief they are entitled because they work hard or are the bread winner )

9. Sexual addiction

10.To escape.

There is no such thing as a perfect affair. Keeping an on-going affair is a juggling act of covering up lies, explaining time away, and dealing with associated guilt feelings. The cheater becomes consumed by guilt and sometimes lashes out even more at their partner. If you are involved in an affair, respect yourself and your partner enough to get out.

As like before, please spare me the bashing because the above was obtained from the following link

Statement like "Truly speaking, women seem to be better cheaters than men" was not made be me ( thank God )...kekekekeke....hahahaha..HAHAHAHAHAHA....aheemm...sorry!

2 every1 his/her OWN..........


kat said...

So these are all facts, and not myths right??

Though I might add that women would be more likely to do it for #7.

Looks like Michael Douglas is seemingly cured of his 'illness' (#9) after he married Cath ZJ.

You really think a guy who cheats feels guilty about doing it??

Bottom line is, when a guy cheats there is no stigma attached to him. But not so for women. Maybe it's because they can remove their true self from the act? And women can't??

Out of curiosity, have you ever heard of marriages that survive when it is the wife who strays, not the husband?

Jamie said...

kat:I gather that the above are all the truth and nothing but the truth. I seriously doubt if Micheal is cured...once an addict always an addict ma....even if he goes cold turkey...kekekeke

I dunno about other guys but its difficult for me to do it when there is no feelings involved...dead wood!!

Any marriage will not last if either one of the spouse strays because the truth will come out sooner or later...sooner or later.

Worse for me cause I bloody talk in my sleep!!! I don't want to get caught with my pants down and wake up with something missing which is dear to me...

Jamie said...

and NO...most of them will not feel guilty but will in turn relish the thought of hiding something from their wifes....